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Hello everybody today i wud like to discuss on a very interesting topic with u all .First of all i wud like to ask u an question dat according to u wat is luv ? Wen subbody ask u or u hear dis word wat all strikes in ur mind hmm . Ok I tell u for me luv is a beautiful word , it is a sweet pain wich i suppose everyone wanted to be a part of it.Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.
To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.
Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.SO plz give ur opinion abt it .
Hello everybody today i wud like to discuss on a very interesting topic with u all .First of all i wud like to ask u an question dat according to u wat is luv ? Wen subbody ask u or u hear dis word wat all strikes in ur mind hmm . Ok I tell u for me luv is a beautiful word , it is a sweet pain wich i suppose everyone wanted to be a part of it.Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.
To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.
Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.SO plz give ur opinion abt it .
i m agree with u in that matter but love is not the love of girlfriend & boyfriend. But u said that people change all the time here u r wrong bz people dn't get changed time is the thing which insists a person to be changed.
ReplyDeleteYes love is like a sweet poison which enters your life slowly slowly and stay there forever
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